I would like to dedicate this blog to my 2 maternal grandparents and my daughter..............the only family i ever had......................as my maternal grand father would say..............i doed it myself................my grandmother would just smile.............she didn't live to see me graduate college...........he did...........................when we talk about deceased loved ones..........i think we can be critical w/o condemning them..............b/c we need critical feedback..............they say in a toastmasters club the most imp. part of the meeting is the evaluation section..........i think it is true.................we need to take a good look to check and see if what we are doing is making sense............i don't look down on their faults so much anymore..............they did the best they could with what they had and their upbringing...............................it was far better than growing up in the streets............miss ya Pop and Nana....................miss ya Adri..........