James is my "mother's" older brother, Gary her younger one........he last name now is Herbert......b/c of her 2nd husband..........the now passed Richard L. Herbert..........who was from a farm in Maryland somewhere..........he never told me b/c he could have cared less about me........

Gary Ruddell <gruddell@totalbizfulfillment.com>	1/24/14
to me, Dave, Sue, techies

Oh enlightened Ramsey:

With all due respect Ramsey about the torture of growing up in the Ruddell family. You have always had a choice. You could have opted out and left the family whenever you wanted. If it was torture why did you stick around? You were not chained.

Why send your enlightened missives about being poisoned to backward people?

Why did you accept money from backward people? Pop & Nana paid for a substantial portion of your bachelor and post-graduate college education.

You took substantial monies from the Paul and Pauline Ruddell Trusts since Pop’s 2000 passing. When asked to provide documentation on the last years Trust monies paid to you—all the Substitute Trustee got was “I am working on it”. You asked for monies to pay on your mortgage which in the last years you did not spend on paying the mortgage—otherwise why would the bank have foreclosed on the Williams family home. You were a trespasser in your former residence.

You are the judge and the torturer.

I wish you peace.

Gary 

From: Ramsey Williams [mailto:ramsey.williams1971@gmail.com] Sent: Friday, January 24, 2014 3:25 PMTo: Jim RuddellCc: Dave Williams; Sue Williams; Gary RuddellSubject: Re: Weight

James Ruddell is the uncle that lives in Wylie, Texas..........the one I stayed with for a month and a half.........when I was homeless in the deep South in 2013.........

Jim Ruddell <techies@flash.net>	1/26/14
to me, Dave, Gary, Sue

Rams,

 

Facing up to the past is the start of healing.

I too was abused. It was enough that I tried to end it.

This is the past.

 

I compensated by choosing women to "complement" me.

 

Jean Ann was a straight A student. She was competent in school.

That was about it. Beyond that she knew little about else

but getting As. She did not know how to boil water! Literally!

 

Joan was not only an A student but was very experienced

in the world. She knew how to cook, Had a masters degree.

One of her professors at Harvard wrote one of the

books I read on human development. As a Jew and a New

Yorker she had a very different background. She was

compassionate. I learned from our Jewish friends that

discussion was encouraged. I went from being wallpaper

to holding my own in discussions. Discussion was not

something mom could handle.

 

I can go on and on.

 

But I am only sharing a little to show how I limped

into life beyond my family.

 

From what Dave said about your blog, you

are teaching about love. Actually, this is a

start. One day you may be able to love.

 

However, I would not expect "perfection".

 

I feel profoundly limited in a number of ways

due to my upbringing.

 

I encourage you to teach love to as many people

as will listen.

 

Hopefully in time you will accept the Ruddell

family as a collection of diverse people.

 

 

 

From: Ramsey Williams [mailto:ramsey.williams1971@gmail.com]
Sent: Friday, January 24, 2014 3:25 PM
To: Jim Ruddell
Cc: Dave Williams; Sue Williams; Gary Ruddell
Subject: Re: Weight

 

Actually, 128 pounds is very unhealthy for a 41 year old man who is 5'7", if you dont believe me, look it up.  What is more, i was poisoned and tortured.  It was just more torture, growing up in the backwards Ruddell family was torture in itself.