Another reply to Jacki.....
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Ok, Jacki, after the prelim......................
I was born Ramsey Paul Williams to Sandra Kay Ruddell, her maiden name, Williams at the time of my birth, Herbert now, her 2nd husband, Richard, who died like 12 years ago..............and Bruce Kellie Williiams on May 10, 1971, i was a week late, the 41st week of pregnancy, a bit odd, i was due on Bruce's birthday, the 3rd of May
I was the 1st born, my brother David was born a year later, in 1972, Aug 9. As i said, we lived on Crespi Drive, in Pacifica, California, we could see the Pacific ocean from the house, Pacifica is a small seaside community and did not have a hospital of its own, Mary Seton, 1st American saint, Maryland, is the hospital i was born in..........my real father, Paul F Chamberlin owned that hospital..............i'm guessing is how he got away with separating me and my twin sister, i have never met her, my mother nor Bruce, nor Paul ever told me i have a twin.........God told me..
We moved to Half Moon Bay/Pacifica CORRECTION: (original text is wrong, 1/2 Moon Bay/EL GRENADA where Mavericks beach is, famous large waves, movie "Chasing Mavericks") at some point, before the divorce in 1974.......my maternal grandparents flew out from the DC area, HERE, to visit us...........and help us move, rent a U haul.........we loaded it up, i still remember doing that, with a ton of antiques, and we drove 5 straight days to Rehoboth Beach, DE.......19971, to my grandparent's Chinese house............where we could see the Atlantic ocean......the corner of Bayard ave and Rodney st.near Silver lake, on the South end of the city...........my grandparents owned that property and the mall and bookstore property, sent u pictures of that....my Nana, maternal grandmother, Pauline Barker, maiden name, born Jessie Pauline Barker, Pauline Ruddell is how she usually put it....died inn 1996, Pop, Paul Alexander Ruddell, passed in 2000, they became Dave's and i's 2nd parents, they also had a house on Adelphi rd in Hyattsville, MD, now a dentist's office.............7600 Adelphi road, the Chinese house and two story guest house, place was NICE, with a two car garage was torn down...............Dave and i lived primarily with them, Nana and Pop, Paul and Pauline Ruddell, the man in the picture with the Nasa astronaut, Pop worked for the USPS, assistant director of Philately, stamp collecting, it was him who instituted the 5 by 7 inch envelopes as a national standard......he also met John Glenn, had his signature for a stamp, another astronaut..
The mall, bookstore property, they called Gingerbread Square mall and bookstore, had a brown house, still there, a bike store now, and a parking lot....Dave and I lived there briefly, as our mother tried to wing it as a single mom..............her parents, Nana and Pop, also owned the brown house on Baltimore avenue and the parking lot in front of it...........A LOT of our childhood was spent going back and forth, from 19981 to the DC area, as they had 5 kids, my mother was the 2nd born, 1st female. Our cousin Eric Daniel Slinkman, his birth name, my "aunt" Sue's 1st born, spent a ton of time with us, they called us the 3 musketeers, there are pictures of us together, we were together a lot, went to Disneyworld and the two world's fairs together, Knoxville, Tn in 1982 or so and New Orleans, Louisiana in 1987 or so.......Bruce Williams would come by to visit occasionally, he could fly for free and so could we until we turned 18, he worked for American Airlines.....
We would fly to Half Moon bay to visit him in the late 1970s, he would pick us from SFO, San Fran International, Dave and I flew across this entire country as 8 and 9 year old kids, or so, forgot exact age, we would always change planes in DFW, Dallas or O'hare in Chicago or Jackson in Atlanta, never a direct flight, Richard our step dad, or Pop, or our mother or Nana or Pop would drop us off at IAD, Dulles or National, across the river in Arlington, VA.......and Bruce w would pick us up in California, he remarried, a Joan, from the San Fran bay area, would was also on her 2nd marriage, she and her 1st husband had adopted 3 kids, all Latinos, a boy and two girls, never met the boy, but i did meet Sarah, El Salvador, and Jessica, Jess, from Guatemala, we went to Disneyland, in Los Angeles together, flew to Minneapolis, St Paul, Minnesota together, palled around together, they were about our age, rescued from the wars in Central America by the red cross....
Fake dad got transferred to DFW, he went there with Joan and Sarah and Jess.....................Dave and I went to school in Rehoboth for ten years or so...........I completed the 8th grade, in 19971, Delaware, our mother remarried and we moved to Virginia, 22193, Dale City................Granby rd........near Hillendale..........lived there for 3 years, they bought the house my mother still lives in on Kirkdale dr......in 1988, the summer between my junior and senior years at Gar Field, in Woodbridge, VA, across the street from Potomac Mills........mall..
Bruce still came to visit from time to time, in Dale City and Delaware, he would drive us to DC..........see the museums and such and we would occasionally fly to DFW and him or Joan would pick us up of drop us off........and the other set of parents/guardians would pick us up from DC area...........sometimes BWI in Baltimore, MD............they sold the Hyattesville house to a dentist, some dentist still owns it, not sure if it is the same, and bought a house in Alex, VA........near Mt Vernon , president Washington's house..............GW parkway, near the Potomac river, i used to walk down there along bike trail.....Stratford Dr........only a 45 minute walk from the actual mt vernon estate of our 1st president...
I spent most of my summers in Rehoboth working for Pop and Nana, Dave and i would work almost 12 hour days, ever day with out a single day off, and we would swim raft or body board in the ocean for several hours........i would mow the grass, trim the hedges, prune the trees, paint, do carpentry, lay concrete, order books, help customers, reorder the shelves, clean the bathrooms, sweep, mop, do a myriad of things, b/c they owned all that land and houses, properties, A LOT of Work, yeeshe!!
Dave was omnipresent in my childhood, i have not seen the man in 12 years or so....he got married to a Sue LaDuke from New England area, New Hampshire, Boston, Mass, etc.....they met when Dave was working temp..they have identical twin daughters, slightly younger than Adrianna. My mother's family has 5 kids, and like 12 grandkids, of Paul and Pauline Ruddell, i have met all my cousins, Renee only once, Jame's kid, she was 1st born, other than her, im the oldest, she never went to a Ruddell family reunion, which were mainly held at the 7600 adelpi rd house, a fireplace in the basement with makeshift ping pong table, upstairs had a fireplace as well, same thing, different floor, but we never used the one on the ground level, Renee, never even ONCE came there to meet her cousins on our side, her dad's side......Jeanane was Jame's wife's name, never met her, she was/is a lawyer i think, so was/is Rennee, both are very and unusally smart, according to my Pop, Jeanne never got less than an A in college, only once did she get less than an A in 4 years and it was a B+...
We had Easter often there or at times at the Chinese house, corner of Rodny and Bayard, which is just 2nd street, south of rehob. ave...........they torn both it and guest house, with garage down, built like 3 houses on the property..............even when Dave adn i lived in Virginia, we always spent our summers in Rehoboth, we brought some of our friends down there, i had a Mexican girlfriend, from Guadalajara who i brought to Delaware, she stayed in our Chinese house with her son Alberto.....jesus Alberto......Chui as we called him, or Chuin, my Nana had passed by them......i drove Alberto and Imelda down there, we went to the rides and her and Chuin went in the ocean, only two blocks away........the Chinese house was so nice it had two outdoor showers........all that salt water and sand clog up pipes...................i took them to the rides, Alberto was very young, like two or so.........Imelda said her ex husband would beat her and rapped her...........this was like 1998 or so.........we spent like a weekend in Rehoboth then drove back to Virginia, she lived with Poncho and Ramon, her brothers.......i met Imelda at El Puerto Mex restaurant on rte one in Alex, Virginia, just south of Beacon mall..
At 18.......i enlisted in the USMC, went to Parris Island, the recruiter was a Latino man from the infantry, SSgt Montalvo............how interesting your name, came to our house, 4732 Kirkdale dr, 22193, he drove me to the MEPS in Baltimore to take the plane to Savannah, Georgia, to go to boot camp in South Carolina, Parris Island, the Marines picked us up on a bus, i spent 3 months on Parris Island, Sept 22, 1989 to dec 1989, graduating 3 days before X mas...........my whole family, well Aunt Sue, girl friend Julie Wise, mother, step dad, Eric's step dad, Bill Grant, Bill's mother, forgot her name, we drove from Beaufort, South Carolina, across the water from Parris Island, really is an island, we didn't start driving to Palm Beach, Fl until the 23rd, b/c Sue pulled Victoria's arm out of its socket as we were touring Parris Island, b/c i had graduated but also b/c Pop lived there with my Nana and mother and Jim, my uncle Jim was like 2, my mother a baby, my Pop was a stenographer, a court reporter.....Nan, mon, and uncle Jim lived on base housing, before Pop was shipped to Guam, South Pacific............so we went to see where Pop worked during WW2, the place was still there.............
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After that i left for MCT in Camp Lejeune, NC and Camp Geiger, Nc.............1990..........
I dated Imelda, again, from Guadalajara, broke up in 1999, the year i met Carmen, Santos Del Carmen, from El Salvador, my current wife, mother of my kid, fell in love again, got married again, went to South Florida for our honeymoon, me and Lupita flew from Mexicali Intl, to Veracruz, Mexico in 1995 for our honeymoon, Carmen and i went to Key west and Miami and Ft Lauderdale and my Pop's condo in South Palm Beach, about 5 minute drive south on a 1 a from Mar a Lago....
Adrianna was born in 2001...............Sept 8...........6 - 7 weeks premature, never have i been so scarred, she spent a month and a half in the neo natal unit, inova Fairfax then Alex hospital, i visited her everyday....at 1st we lived with Carmen's sister Raquel, her husband, Jaime and their son Evis, in Alexandria, rte one corridor, again, near Beacon hill mall.............4 years, Parsons ct.............i bought a house in Dumfries, VA..........Montclair section......we all lived there for 7 years.......May of 2005 until it was foreclosed in Nov of 2012, i lost my job, became very sick, was having episodes of vertigo, fainting spells, Carmen was poisoning both Adrianna and I with God knows what......i lost my job at GEICO, Fredericksburg, VA......
I was homeless then, my mother kicked me out of her house on Kirkdale on Xmas day and disowned me............i have not seen her since, i found out, like 3 years ago, that i am illegitamte, Bruce W is not my dad, a Paul Chamberlin is, the man who reaped me in a house along the boardwalk in Rehoboth when i was like 5 or so...........the memory came out in a dream, my family was SO scared of Paul, then did nothing, so i felt no one loved me, what i didn't know, is that Paul was a full colonel in the US Army and a ranger, special forces, and a professional assassin, and had my mother and her parents, Nana and Pop threatened that he would kill all of us and make it look like an accident if they told the police......i repressed that memory for like 47 years as i had repressed meeting an alien queen and her daughter the princess and there body guard, in the Chinese house when i was 6..........they said they were from another galaxy, 30 million light years away, and Queen Nesera was the leader of the entire planet and i danced with princess Jessenia, who was also 6, now is only 17, her mother, Queen Nesera told me that her race ages slower, she came back like 8 months ago.....i didn't see in the 46 years or so in between, repressed both memories, NO wonder i had mental problems!!!
After the house foreclosed in 2012, i was incarcerated in Manassas, VA in 2013.....for tresspassing at my daughter's school, in Woodbridge Mary g Porter..........spent 28 days in Manassas jail, the us fed gov paid for my train ticket to San Antonio, TX...........my 1st roomate in college and his live in boyfriend picked me up from the amtrack train station in San Antonio, TX.......April of 2013.........i made my way to DC............from San Antoione, got back here in December of 2013....where i have been homeless since, in 2013, the us fed gov paid for a hotel in Dallas, where i sent an email to myself saying that the south side locos, ms 13 gang, and maybe other DC area Latino gangs might try to kill prsident Obama, i was correct, teh us fed gov, gave me permission to do illegal things to try to find out who was trying to kill Obama, and to research the racial sitiuation in the USA, when i was down south, Texarkana, West Memphis, AR, Memphis, TN......Nashville, TN, Knoxsville, TN on Thanksgiving day of 2013, Pres Obama called the homeless shelter.............i made DC from Greenville, TN......the us fed gov paid for my bus ticket........have been homeless ever since..
I started writting one blog in 2014, then the other...............over a million and 600 thousand page views...........and over 55 thousand posts, the rest is history...Ramsey
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